Hi, I'm Sarah, a tech enthusiast specializing in digital well-being and online safety for families. I've spent years researching and guiding families on how to navigate the digital world safely and responsibly, particularly when it comes to online purchases and children's accounts.

Let's talk about "Ask to Buy." This feature, available on both Apple and Google platforms, is an incredibly helpful tool for parents to manage their children's app downloads and in-app purchases. When activated, it gives parents the power to approve or decline any download or purchase requests their child makes on their device. This way, you're always in the loop and can prevent accidental spending or the downloading of inappropriate apps.

Now, regarding turning off "Ask to Buy." It's important to note that while it might seem tempting to disable this feature for the sake of convenience, doing so can expose your child to potential risks. It's crucial to weigh the pros and cons carefully.

**Here's how to turn it off, should you decide to, keeping in mind the potential risks involved:**

On Apple Devices (iOS):


1. Open the Settings app on your device. This is usually an icon with grey cogs.

2. Tap on your name/Apple ID. This will be at the very top of the Settings menu.

3. Select "Family Sharing." This is where you manage all settings related to your family's connected Apple devices and accounts.

4. Choose the child's name for whom you want to disable "Ask to Buy."

5. Toggle off "Ask to Buy." You'll see a confirmation pop-up; read it carefully before proceeding.

On Android Devices (Google Play Store):


1. Open the Google Play Store app.

2. Tap on your profile icon in the top right corner.

3. Go to "Settings."
4. **Select "Family" and then "Parental controls."** You may need to enter your Google account password to proceed.

5. Choose the child's account where you want to disable "Ask to Buy."
6. **Toggle off "Require authentication for purchases."**

A Word of Caution: It's crucial to emphasize again that while turning off "Ask to Buy" might seem easier, it removes a significant layer of control and protection. Before making this decision, have an open conversation with your child about responsible app usage, online spending, and the importance of seeking your permission before downloading or buying anything.

Consider exploring alternative solutions, such as setting spending limits or using gift cards, to provide your child with some independence while maintaining oversight.

Remember, open communication, clear expectations, and consistent guidance are key to navigating the digital world safely and responsibly as a family.
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iPhone, iPad, or iPod touchGo to Settings > [your name] and tap Family Sharing. If you're using iOS 10.2 or earlier, go to Settings > iCloud and tap Family.Tap your family member's name.Tap Ask to Buy.read more >>