As a psychological expert with a deep understanding of personality disorders, I've spent considerable time studying and analyzing the behaviors and self-perception of individuals with narcissistic tendencies. Narcissism, as defined by the American Psychiatric Association, is a personality disorder characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, a need for excessive admiration, and a lack of empathy for others.

The question of whether narcissists are aware of their narcissism is complex and multifaceted. While many researchers have theorized that a lack of self-awareness is a hallmark trait of narcissists, my personal experience as a professional in the field suggests a different perspective. It seems to me that many individuals with narcissistic traits are not only aware of who they are but they embrace it. This embracement can manifest in various ways, from a subtle sense of superiority to an overt display of self-admiration.

Narcissists often have a grandiose self-image, which they maintain through various means, such as exaggerating their achievements, seeking validation from others, and dismissing criticism as unfounded. This self-image is a defense mechanism that helps them cope with underlying feelings of insecurity and vulnerability. The need for constant admiration and the tendency to exploit others are also part of this self-protective strategy.

However, it's important to note that not all narcissists are the same. The spectrum of narcissism ranges from healthy self-esteem to the more extreme and pathological forms of narcissistic personality disorder. Those with the latter may indeed lack self-awareness, as their inflated self-concept is so deeply ingrained that they may not recognize the impact of their behavior on others.

Moreover, the level of self-awareness can also be influenced by external factors. For instance, feedback from others, particularly if it challenges their self-image, can prompt some narcissists to reflect on their behavior. However, this is not always the case, as many narcissists have a strong resistance to accepting negative feedback, which they may perceive as an attack on their self-esteem.

In conclusion, while some narcissists may be blissfully unaware of their narcissistic tendencies, others are acutely aware and even take pride in their perceived superiority. The level of self-awareness among narcissists is variable and can be influenced by a range of factors, including the severity of their narcissism, their life experiences, and the feedback they receive from others.

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Many researchers have also theorized that a lack of self-awareness is a hallmark trait of narcissists. My personal experience does not support this: It seems to me as though such people are not only aware of who they are, but they embrace it.Mar 25, 2011read more >>